How does my attitude affect my environment?

In order for me to answer this question and honestly, I'll do an intervew with my siblings.



This is what Marcia, my four-year-old sister said about me: "I like Tiffany 'cause she lets me play with her dolls."
Then I talked to my sister Emily, age 6. The question went like this:
"Emily, do you like me?"
"No."
"Well, I don't like you either."
"Okay, I do like you because you shared some of your ice cream with me."
Now it's Andrianna's turn (8 years):
"Do you like me?"
"Ya."
"What is is about me thath you like?"
"..." (dazed)
"Andrianna?"
"Huh?"
"What do you like about me?"
That you go outside and play with me, and you're a cool big sister!"
Then I asked my older sister, Ashley, age 16. Here's what she said:
"What is is that you like about me?"
"You're good at listening when I have problems, and you don't tell my secrets (often). And you can (occasionally) be funny."
"What is it about me that you don't like?"
"Sometimes you can be very obnoxious, and you sometimes bully others. I wonder if you have a split personality...?"
Then I asked my brother Jonathan, age 11:
"What do you like about me?"
"You're my sister, you play with me and share things with me."
"What don't you like about me?"
"You're mean."
Then it was James, age 2:
"What do like about me, James?"
"Can I play Boohbah?"
"What don't you like about me?"
"Boohbah."
By saying this, he meant that I'm like a Boohbah; soft and squishy, and he likes to cuddle with me.
Then I interviewed my dad:
"What do you like about me?"
"Nothing."
"What is it about me that you don't like?"
"You whine a lot."
Now it's (finally) mom's turn: "What is it about me that you like?"
"Well, you're my daughter, and I love all my children. But what I like most about you is that you have very high self-esteem, and you don't let what people say about you affect you to the point where you go and sulk."
"What don't you like about me?"
"It's when I ask you to clean up and you whine and pout, and then when you finally get it done, it takes an hour (exaggeration). And the other thing-it's not that I don't like it about you, it's just that I'm concerned- is that you're a little overweight. But I'm working with you and we're going to get your weight under control."

What I think about what everyone said:
I believe I need to change my actions.